A guide to vibrators for couples


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up close a kissing couple

Here’s the deal: Any vibrator is a vibrator for couples if you want it to be. Most vibrators do not have a single prescribed function – they are intended for research, for greater pleasure, for play.

To paraphrase a a reliable sex therapist, partner sex works best when each person takes responsibility for their sexual desires. Introducing toys into your sex life can be a deeply satisfying expression of this principle.

Below, our current favorites, organized according to needs and desires.

For hands-free research

Designed for partner sex, the Eva II has flexible “wings” that are designed to be tucked under the labia to help keep the vibrator in place so all hands can handle the weight freely or do whatever they want. It may take a little practice and adjustment to find the right position – pull the labia one by one over the wing.


  1. Dame Products EVA II VIBRATOR, $ 135

    Dame Products
    EVA II VIBRATOR
    goop, $ 135

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The tilt is designed with pleasure for all sexes: it has two independently operated motors – one at the end of the plug to stimulate the G-spot or prostate, and the other on a longer, outer arm that can be used to stimulate the clitoris or perineum. The sensation of vibration is not like a typical buzz; it is more deep drumming, radiation. It lies very flat against the body when inserted – and is designed to stay in place as you explore. (Bonus: It has a warming function, which increases blood flow, making it easier to relax and eventually climax.)


  1. Laura DiCarlo TILT goop, $ 140

    Laura DiCarlo
    TILT
    goop, $ 140

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For remote control

The We-Vibe choir has two different heads; you push the smaller one into the vagina, and the larger one rests on the vulva and clitoris. The smaller, inner head is inconspicuous and can be worn comfortably during penetrating sex. To adjust the vibrations of the Chorus, you can press the controls on the larger head or squeeze the corresponding remote control, which responds to the pressure of your hand to increase the intensity. Or give the remote control to a partner and let it rotate at the touch of a button. This set comes with Womanizer Premium, a clitoral stimulator that uses air impulses to create a sucking sensation (one of our five best-selling vibrators with reason).


  1. Womanizer GOLEN MOMENTS COLLECTION goop, 299 USD

    Womanizer
    COLLECTION OF GOLDEN MOMENTS
    goop, $ 299

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The nut is designed to adjust the depth. Simply fold the four modular rings and place them around the bottom of the penetrating partner’s penis (or around your chosen toy) to create a soft, compressible tampon. It doesn’t sacrifice pleasant sensations for either partner – each ring is soft and stretchy and feels like leather. We recommend that you start with three and from there adjust to four or down to two.


  1. Ohnut OHNUT goop, $ 65

    He gasped
    THIN
    goop, $ 65

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To explore erogenous zones

Designed to stimulate sensitive areas all over the body, the We-Vibe Touch X is a versatile vibrator that sits nicely in your – or your partner’s – hand. Peek into the shallow cup on your head: you can press the whole thing on the vulva for a wider feeling or use a comb to target stimulation of the clitoris or nipples.


  1. We-Vibe TOUCH X goop, $ 99

    We-Vibe
    TOUCH X
    goop, $ 99

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Think of a French lover as a second language. The flexible tip vibrates slightly and can be swung around to simulate a delicate licking sensation. It is great for teasing clusters, for beginners or those who are more sensitive to strong pressure.


  1. Smile Makers FRENCH LOVE goop, 60 USD

    Smile Makers
    FRENCH LOVER
    goop, $ 60

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Finger vibrators, like the Finn, are designed for effort, feel natural to wear and don’t distract from the moment. Just move your index finger and middle finger along the grooves and change the intensity with the power button on the top.


  1. Dame Products FIN VIBRATOR, $ 85

    Dame Products
    FIN VIBRATOR
    goop, $ 85

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For clitoral stimulation

The force is a clitoral vibrator that never comes into contact with the clitoris itself. It has an extremely wide mouth that covers the entire head of the clitoris, using gentle sound waves that generate pulsation and suction.


  1. LELO SILA VIBRATOR, $ 169

    LELO
    POWER VIBRATOR
    goop, $ 169

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The sticks provide a disheveled, strong external vibration, which is good for those who need more stimulation to get off. Our double-sided rod vibrator does this with its ball-shaped end, and even more: The other end is thin and flexible for precise clitoral vibrations, as well as for exploring the vaginal opening. (You can also use a thin end to penetrate one to three inches; it feels especially good pressed against the front wall of the vagina.)


  1. goop Wellness DOUBLE SIDED VIBRATOR FOR THYROID goop, 95 USD

    goop Wellness
    Double sided bar vibrator
    goop, $ 95

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For erotic massage

This herbal massage oil – a blend of saffron, sunflower, grape seed and jojoba oil – has just the right amount of glide and doesn’t absorb too quickly into the skin. It is silky smooth and beautiful, on its own. But it’s even better to warm up gently in Pulse Warmer. Just insert the pod into the heater, press the button, wait a minute and keep your fingers underneath dispenser for two seconds; provides an evenly balanced stroke to your fingers. (It’s also great for lubrication – Pulse creates pods with pure water-based lubricant.) The heater switches off automatically one hour after the last use and has a locking function, so it never switches off when you do not want to.


  1. PULSE SPOIL ME MASSAGE OIL PULSE UNDER goop, 30 USD

    Pulse
    SPOIL ME MASSAGE OIL PULSE POD
    goop, $ 30

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For communication and intimacy

Designed to pick it up right after sex, each entry into this magazine encourages you and your partner to think first – separately and then together – about what feels best, what you want out of the game, and how you grow together. If talking about sex ever feels awkward, the magazine also includes a guide to managing those feelings. The ultimate goal? Greater openness, a bit of nonsense and pleasant sex.


  1. Sex Journal SEX MAGAZINE FOR COUPLES goop, 26 USD

    Sex Journal
    SEX MAGAZINE FOR COUPLES
    goop, $ 26

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